To answer your question wanttobehealthy-NO i would never do that to an ex girlfriend of a guy I was dating even if he was talking sh*t about her and making her out to be a villian.
Oops- here's where tone gets lost in writing on line... I was being VERY SARCASTIC with my question.... I know you wouldn't do that-- no one in their right mind would do that!
I am so sorry that my post wasn't clear.... That would have been just plain obnoxious if I was really asking you that.... It never crossed my mind for a second that you or anyone on here would do that!