I wasnt saying to use the book to control anyone, its for us girls that are too nice. Were not assertive enough and we make the guy the most important thing. Its for girls who are too available mainly becuase we lack confidence, they dont mean bitch in a mean way its more in a tounge and cheek fashion. Its not about manipulation its about learning to put yourself first and learning to be upfront and direct in your communication with the men in your life. Didnt mean to offend anyone