Originally Posted by
drowninginair 
im a newbie -------but if you have made it two months you are super strong!!dont let him weasel his way back in. also as a mother i think it would be very confusing to the children to have him back in the home. maybe the false hope that everything is better and you will be a family again. ( idont know your childrens ages though) stay strong this is coming from someone teetering on the verge of caving but SR is helping........good luck
Our kids are 4 and 12. I don't think it would be confusing for our 12 year old because she would understand. Our 4 year - that would be confusing.
Thanks for the replies. I knew I did the right thing. The obsessing and me feeling bad for him was short lived and has passed.