Originally Posted by
GettingBy 
I know differently. And while I hear his words, I try hard not to listen and feel them... because they can and will hurt me.
Thanks for letting me share!
Well GettingBy...you're going through the toughest part now, simply because of the adjustment. I've been separated for a year and I'm still hearing this stuff!
Interesting FIRST FOR ME PEOPLE...
just got another email.
Instead of the usual guilt trip I go to because that's his aim...I LAUGHED!
What he wrote was...so...stupid!
It was meant to show me once again that I am the problem, and he always was the solution, but that I'm the thing that just can't be fixed!
Gettingby...if I can laugh at the latest manipulation, you will too...and hopefully a lot sooner than I did.
Those words didn't hurt me today!
Oh...shhh...keep this a secret...
he wrote more manipulative stuff, and I said "those things hurt me" ...
but honestly...shhhh....I was lying...I WAS LYING...those things didn't touch me this time!
my own form of manipulation...lol