Well, yes, I got the deflection in terms of what was wrong with me so that it took the focus off him. But that was just a flip of what I was doing to him, so in hindsight I would say we were quits.
In your case based on what you have written previously, though, I would say that this is a MAJOR "watch your back" sign. He is not going to let you go quietly. Good call on passing them to your lawyer.
You mentioned on another post that he has been diagnosed with a PD. Have you found any forums for those that are dealing with spouses with a PD?