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Old 04-16-2011, 10:35 AM
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Kassie2
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I think I felt slightly different things though relate to the feeling that somehow I did or did not do something by the script.
I think that this is the part we do our recovery. Learning to untwist our thinking and see things as they really are.
I did choose to learn from my AH, not to take life too seriously or personally. I learned that I can sit down and relax. I can let things go sometimes and not feel everything has to be done now!
I now have the time to take myself to the doctor's, get things repaired, and relax or take a day off because I choose to and not to take care of some other crises at the time.
So while in your recovery you may want to take what you can learn about taking care of yourself and your needs and leave the rest to him.
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