It sucks but I found out the hard way that they do MANIPULATE us and get what they want. Mine has done it soo mannyy times and that is why I now feel I am really DONE. I just feel I can never give him another chance because he has already had a million chances and we still end up in the same situation. He is good and sober for a few months and BAM
he gets comfortable, starts drinking again and the whole cycle repeats itself. Wash Rinse Repeat. Happens everytime without fail.
I have totally been where you are and it is so hard but try and learn from us that have been there. You are so young and do not deserve anymore years living in CRAZYTOWN. We are here for you!