Originally Posted by
suki44883 
if you decide to stay where you are, I believe that before long, things will return to the way they were a few months ago.
I believe he will remain on "good" behavior, or a least "good enough" until the job opportunity has expired. Then it will be same ole, same ole. And you will be back to "stuck" and him having financial "power" over you.
I know you're thinking I can't possibly know that, your circumstances are unique, he's making progress, etc. But, damn, they really are THAT predictable.
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P.S. I think that is why this thread is triggering so many of us. We can see the train wreck about to happen and can do nothing to stop it.