Originally Posted by
putmeontheair 
If he called a lawyer, that implies to me it is beyond hope and that it's done. It's a hard realization. And a scary one. A year ago I wasn't even engaged. It sucks.
OR you can switch over your viewpoint and consider that you've learned a great deal about yourself in the past year. Whether or not your marriage ends will also be a learning experience and part of your journey. This couldn't have come about if you hadn't met and married your A. IMO, things happen for a reason, putmeontheair.