Old 04-14-2011, 01:49 PM
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LaTeeDa
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I was the absolute opposite of laid back and go with the flow. Both when we met and all throughout the 20-year marriage. I am much more laid back now.

Personally, I think it's about neediness. Alcoholics need enablers and codependents need to be needed.

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