Originally Posted by
sailorjohn 
Alcoholism is all about control, alcoholics try to control their drinking, other people. As do codependents.
Looking out for it is a good idea, but if you're like a lot of us here that is what you will attract/be attracted to, unless you do a lot of work on yourself.
Just sayin'
Exaclty and thats me, I have I love alcoholics secretly imprinted in my forehead while I sleep so working a serious program in alanon and going to some coda meetings, im finally ready for the cycle to stop its been painful but inspiring at the same time and this is just the beginning, yikes