yes but on the other hand, all men want thier way all the time, seems I get left in the dust alot though, got a book for you, had some great results with it, why men love bitches hahahhaha its not what you think its super funny but shows you the difference between being a a guys dreamgirl or doormat, makes alot of damn sense and its been working for me lately. Just learning to be direct seems to have made the biggest difference I used to dance around what I was trying to say, use euphamisms, stall, but now I just say it, with love, but I just say it and many people in my life have thanked me for it