Thumper -- that's kind of the whole problem in our relationship. He's riding the coattails. I literally got "I don't understand why whether we divorce or not is based on whether I have a job and am contributing to the household." Uh ... because it's a partnership? Soo the answer is yes, if he makes it a priority, he sure can. Without a doubt. He would have to actually apply for jobs though.
Seriously ... in my next life I want to be my RAH with a codependent me. If I hadn't started Al-Anon, all this crap would just be continuing. Bummer for him.