Thread: Separating?
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Old 04-14-2011, 11:48 AM
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Then I think it comes down to whether or not you feel you need to protect yourself (financially) from him.

I separated from my husband for over a year before I filed for divorce. It was very stressful worrying about things like him getting a DUI and my insurance going up as a result. Or him not paying his taxes and the IRS coming after me. Or any other bill collectors for that matter.

I could have stayed married living separately forever if it wasn't for those fears. (Okay, maybe not forever, but protecting my assets was the main reason I decided to divorce.)

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