HAHAHA so many A's think that! Like the speaker I saw the other day, who was thankful that his wife had never been to Alanon. If he only knew how he would be forced to stand on his own two feet if she was in her own recovery.
I've heard that a couple times, how A's think that all we talk about in those rooms is how we can s**t on the A in our lives. If the were absorbing any of their OWN recovery in AA, they would know how the programs are so similar, and how it works. But then again, they are sick, and will blame anything if they don't get their way.
Good for you for not engaging!