This is getting out of hand....
Ok...so I left my ABF about 6 weeks ago and have been staying at my parents since. For the past little while, I have kept communication open and even the chance of a reconsiliation open as well with my ABF. He says that he is attending AA meetings and working on getting a job.
He has been becoming increasingly 'clinggy', sending me email after email stating how much he needs me and loves me and can't live without me.
Last weekend, according to his father who is staying with him, he threatened to kill himself. So his dad texted me asking me to do something and I just ignored it....he was ok in the end. I have also seen on facebook that he is sending messages to numerous old collegues, distant family members etc. stating that "this is an emergency in the name of love, my heart is breaking, call me right now or I will kill myself".
I told him last weekend (after the threat) that I am DONE, completely done, I can't take this anymore. The last few years, all I've been doing is surviving and making sure that he's ok. He doesn't have much family or even friends around, and I am worried about him. But I just want to move on already. All my things are still at the apartment that we shared, and I am scared to go and get them. His dad is out of town for the next 10 days and I would like someone on 'his side' to be there for him when I go get my things, I too, will be bringing some family with me (safety issues).
I really don't know what to do at the moment, this has just become so out of control, so WEIRD! It's like a bad movie.
Any suggestions are truly appreciated..