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nodaybut2day WTBH, I also think you handled the conversation beautifully and that there was no insult in your approach. However, if he's still deep in denial, he's going to see EVERYTHING you say that isn't "honey you're right let's get back together" as insulting.
Don't beat yourself over the head for engaging in the conversation. Remember: progress not perfection.
Next time, you can shut the conversation down politely and firmly: "I don't want to talk about this".
The bolded part makes SO much sense. I will keep this in mind during the next interaction. I am sure there will be one. Thanks!