Originally Posted by
RECF 
I want him to go and leave me and my dog.
He will hold that over your head. Have you spoke with anyone about a legal separation? Maybe something can be worked out either to force him to leave or get your name off the lease.
I'd start moving on with plan B. I think all the plans will be stressful.
I understand the frustration and anger at the injustice but, IME, it got a lot better once I started moving forward and taking control in the ways that I could.