My hubby's still calling the shots
I'm upset because I left almost two months ago because he was on a binge - yelling, loud music, smashing things. He hadn't worked except occasional stuff for nearly 2 years. I had finally gone through my savings and said enough was enough and then left.
I asked him to leave the apartment he hasn't been paying for and keep our dog that he hadn't been caring for, but he keeps pushing the dates.Today he threatened to keep the apt (even though he hasn't paid rent in 2 mts.) saying that I was the one who left and "didn't try" so I therefore deserve nothing.
Just upset, depressed, trying to avoid the feeling that I want to *convince* him that I am in the right. What does it matter, right, if he believes that I am the bad guy in this situation? Why should I care what he thinks of me, right? I just want him to leave, already.