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Old 04-12-2011, 04:35 AM
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XXXXXXXXXX
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I could have written your above post. When I moved in 6 months ago, I told him that I wanted him to at least sit at the table with me and the kids when I made evening meals at 6:30. Sometimes he would, but would rarely eat, even if he were not drinking. Then at 10, he would eat right before going to bed.

I can't eat right before bed, if I do I can't sleep so that doesn't make any sense to me. I do know that his stomach is really messed up, and that his he was wrecking his body with his lack of nutrition.

The funniest thing was that there is a bar just down the street from us. He would say to me "I think I want a club sandwitch" and would go to the bar to eat, even though I had made dinner. This infuriated me.

When he was actively trying not to drink, (or at least going to therapy, taking the meds, and telling me he was not trying to drink) and he would say he wanted one, I would go pick up that nasty sandwitch, TO GO.
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