I did the "tough love" thing..still do..I love her (my RAD)and will do anything to support her recovery and nothing at all to support or protect her from the consequences of her addiction.the story is horribly sad and I really agree with the whole rehab instead of jail..for possession..NOT for DUI's or other crimes where others lives are risk. It is tragic how much rehabs cost, and the unavailability.But the really sad truth is that rehabs aren't magic bullets and until a person wants to stop AND is willing to do do the work, it's not going to happen whether us parents coddle them and enable or boot them to the streets.. no easy answers here with a cunning and baffling disease.