Oh Suki is so right..I thought my loved one would not be so crazy once they got to rehab but quackityquack was I wrong!He now has no buffer for his pain and is distressed by the detox..they don't want you to have a phone for a reason..he's there to work on his sobriety.Period.Not your relationship, or even being a DAd.That comes later..sobriety is the number one thing..without it, everything else falls apart.Can't tell you how many times I was told that till it really sunk in.