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Old 04-09-2011, 09:14 AM
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wanttobehealthy
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Be trustworthy is the only answer I can give." Surely a grown-up can figure that out?
I'd always assumed so but I have begun to really doubt that he has the same moral code I do (and that most humans do). He has an exception that explains/justifies every lie/every wrongdoing so that it's never what it seems (in his mind at least).

I've wasted years of my life thinking if I just explained the concept of honesty and why it's the foundation of marriage, that he'd "get it" and figure out how to be trustworthy. But he still hasn't.

Thanks for the suggestion of telling him to ask his sponsor. If he had one that'd be a great place for him to start.
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