XABF was not acting like a mouthy teenager.
He was an abusive passive-agressive man.
He still is.
I have learned not to minimize the actions of others. Abuse is abuse period. No more excuses, it is what it is. Or more like, it was what it was, thank God and all the Angels and SR and IRL support, that made me realize I was a willing hostage...
I do not deserve agression in any form. This was such a huge lesson! still is.