Switch your focus back to YOU.
Breathe. Be in the present moment.
Your problem is not HER, your problem is YOU.
Go back to your meetings and talk about it there.
You do not know what is a healthy relationship or how to be in one, and 90 days is not long enough to know what is good for you in this regard. Make no decisions, be as kind as you can, focus on taking the right actions so that you do not hurt other people, talk to your Higher Power about it and be quiet enough to listen to the response.
Keep going back.