yup I guess fear is the dominant force in my life as well, only I didn't know that until the other day
It was just a kind of 'feeling' that I had.
Now that I recognize what it is I feel better able to deal with it. For example I had mentioned that I was stuck in the area of exercise, I think its because I'm afraid I won't keep it up / do well, so best not to start at all.
Now I kinda like f%#k you fear!!!
Ahem
ooh I like the idea of a list, gotta think about that one for a bit