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It's been very painful for my daughter to adjust to the new me, and to start acting like a 15-year old rather than a 10-year old. And it's my fault.
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One minor observation. I make a distinction between fault and responsibility.
Fault connotes blame, guilt, judgement.
Responsibility is just an acceptance of what is ours.
I try to avoid using "fault" wholesale.
peace