Oh, Alone22....I know it will not help the true underlying issues. My point is that to him, it would be a perfect marriage. He has his perfect family. We are all living together. To all friends and family looking in he is this great family man, (appearances are so very important to him). But in his self-centered mind, he has it made with a live-in nanny/maid/chef/wh*re, all of which he is getting for free!! How great is that?? And he also has me there to pay for half the bills!