this IS who he is.....he is showing you on a daily basis EXACTLY who he is, he's advertising it loud and clear. i've yet to see a world class jerk magically transform into a nice guy. if you stopped putting so much energy into wishing and wanting for HIM to change, what ELSE could you do with all that free time?
Ohhh, Anvilhead....I remember your wise words when I was here quite regularly about 2 years ago. Crazy isn't it? That I am still hoping he will change. My therapist is trying to get to this point too. Why am I still here? What am I waiting for? My answer to her???? "For some reason I keep thinking that one day he will wake up and be the husband and father that we want him to be".
Crazy.......