The end result is I'm starting to not only think her alcoholism is the deal breaker but the fact that she's just a mean venomous person is a deal breaker.
Yep, I had the same sort of revelation. I got sober, and I was sure that when he got sober, everything would be great. Well, not so much. He was only sober for about 2 weeks after rehab and never changed from what he was.
Selfish, childish, immature, cheating, lying and sometimes downright mean as a snack.
It was always there, I was just blind to it.
Either because I was numb and drunk or in denial, it did finally come.
I was relieved, cause then I was done, but also felt stressed because I had to act on this knowledge I could not ignore anymore.
Sigh,......
I hope this makes sense.
I think I understand and have been there Shellcrusher.
Beth