Originally Posted by
Tuffgirl 
Take responsibility, make amends when you are wrong, pay attention to what others are saying, have compassion, put others' best interests first sometimes, find your own happiness, and on and on and on. All the things we do to take care of ourselves as grown-ups. Just do it. It's the easy road - the road to contentment. Imagine the energy spent on maintaining the lies, the anger, the blame, the facade. Then imagine putting that same amount of energy toward improving your family, relationships, career, health, etc. I don't understand the choice to go the hard way.
This is all I ask. I want him to put his energy into being a mature, responsible adult rather than the self-centered ass that is always blaming EVERYONE else for every little thing that he considers to be wrong in his life. That's all. Simple.