((Hugs)) I go thru the same merry go round with my stbxah, and when I told him the papers were ready he FLIPS out....calls me the same thing as your did, tells me this is WAS etc.....texts me horrible hatebul messages etc - I think they must read from the same book!! Anyway, I am filing them, I have waited for what I'm not sure.....but I am SO done. SO I am repeating to myself over and over, and going t post it in my bathroom, "I am a STRONG, INDEPENDENT WOMAN WHO CAN DO ANYTHING!!" I figure the more I say it, the less anxiety I will feel!!