When I read the thread title I thought "Where are you going?" I was hoping you had a fun weekend planned, lol.
Let him pack his own bag.
I had a hard time with this stuff. I did a lot of it. I don't want to be harsh so I'm not going to detail how I feel about it (and myself) looking back at it. Basically, it isn't cool to treat adults like 6yo's. It harms us both and it is soooo destructive to a relationship and how we interact and function.