Thank you!
thanks for responding, well she finally put me out of my misery and we did it together lol. She asked me that question because she wanted me to realize that me and my boyfriend are working two very different programs. I was alittle confused I thought I was supposed to be doing alot of the things he was doing and she wanted me to see that his job is to be of service to others and mine is to be of service to myself and accept service from others, that we give too much and they take too much. I get what shes saying and it cleared up alot of things for me. I realize now that its all about me taking care of myself