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Old 04-04-2011, 06:27 AM
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Kindeyes
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Originally Posted by Time4Me1 View Post
Is it possible to learn to trust again and would alanon meeting help with these feelings??????
We can't answer this question for you. And the only way you can find out is to attend and keep going (getting past the discomfort of going in the first place) to see if it helps you.

Naranon/Alanon have been crucial to my recovery. Reading books to help me understand myself and the addict in my life have been crucial to my recovery. And it is a process.....I'm not done yet......and I may never be "done".

And just like the addict, I had to want it more than anything in order to really commit to my own recovery.

You'll never know the answer to this questions unless you try. My suggestion to anyone considering going to Naranon/Alanon.....don't go to just one meeting and decide it's not for you. Commit to going 6 - 10 times.

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