Thanks stacylove! I know breaking it off with him was the sanest thing I've done in along time. I love my life and weekends now because they are worry free. I no longer have to spend any more of my time watching someone drink like a crazy person. On that note, I am close to the point where I don't care what he does or who he does it with. It does sting because I invested alot of time and feelings into him and I invited him into my life only to have him mess everything up.
I also am the type of person that doesn't let alot of people in and I chose to let him in and he deceived me so I am angry with him for that. BUT, I know he is not a prize at all. I am happy if he found someone to put up with him. However, I don't think he will change just because he met someone new. Better her than me. If he treats her anything like he treated me, she will live a life of agony so the joke is on her. I'm ready to start my life and not be a babysitter, hostage, caretaker, etc anymore!!!