Originally Posted by
rowanthe 
The reason his bail wasn't revoked, is because they screwed up. He was in jail for 5 month without making bail. They really believed that there was no way for him to get out, so they didn't make it a priority to get before the judge to revoke it. They are not happy that they screwed up. Who would have thought that she, the victim, would bail him out.
Um, anybody who has any experience dealing with domestic violence would have thought that. In our court, it's done at the time of the plea. I take it there isn't a "no contact" condition on his bail, either?
It is, and it isn't, "against her will". I don't believe she has a death wish. I think she thinks she can control it--which is a delusion.
If she comes to the party, I wouldn't force her to tell anyone what she did, and why. It won't do any good.
Hang in there--Wednesday is coming.