are u in AL ANON?
when someone goes to AA or in detox...they really should not have any partner/relationships...where you bf and gf? and living together...tell me more, or i will look at old post...
you trying to figure him out, is not gonna help any...actually its a waste of time and energy....
that energy should be focused on YOU....and you alone...please take this time to do just that...find who you are.....