Hello Aimee,
As you have already read, your going to get lot's of support here and options for help and alot of flowery flowers if that's what you want. I'm going to get a little more down to the point. How easy do you want this to be. Your crack-head, irresponsible, exempt from responsiblity, because he loves his buzz, husband has no excuse to be jeopardizing his and your entire life. Sorry I am not going to be nice about it.