InLoveWithHim

Thanks, confusedandsad,

What a "sad" name you picked. I hope it evolves over time to a better one.

I have spoken with my partner, in a very calm voice one night when he came over intoxicated (drunk seems too strong here) and then proceeded to open another bottle of wine. I told him I was very worried about his health and that I thought he was an alcoholic. I know! You probably aren't supposed to do it this way - I am going to be a social worker (really). It is better to use I or we statements than you. He said 'how would l know how much he drank?' He did not speak to me for four days.

This is backwards. Getting punished for trying to help.