the problem is that we have two children together (only 3 and 2 years old)...he's spending too much money...i go to school and work....I WANT HIM TO HELP ME. he needs to get his crap together and keep his promises because his behavior and attitude is screwing up my life...i can't replace him..i don't have family that can help me financially or otherwise. so frustrating that i can't DO anything.