Good for you...hang in there...the confusion is hard to let go of. I fight it everyday and some days I am successful at not obsessing and others not so good. I have the hardest time accepting the utterly loooong process the RAH has to go through, the lack of accepting responsibility, the continued blame, the emotional roller-coaster he is on. I have found recently it is best to stay away from him right now. He just brings me down. Every once in a while, I knock at his proverbial door, get my head cut off verbally, and go back to my corner again. Painful reminder but oh-so effective.
Taking things one day at a time really helps, but it took me a long time to get to that point where I could truly just focus on one-day-at-a-time. Keep going to meetings! And take care of yourself, do something nice for yourself.
Last edited by Tuffgirl; 04-01-2011 at 08:48 AM.
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