(((Japabp))) - welcome to SR!! Most of us come here wanting help for our A's (addicts/alcoholics) but find out the only person we can help is ourselves. I'm both a codependent and a recovering addict (RA) from crack.
I can tell you that if he's abusing crack, you never WILL have any money. Anything that can be sold, will be. My XABF (ex addict boyfriend) sold everything in my entire house, the first time I was in jail...down to the vacuum cleaner.
He's not going to quit until he wants it more than anything else. Most of us A's don't quit until we face a lot of consequences..mine involved losing a nursing career, becoming homeless, and being in jail.
I understand you can't go to a meeting with the agoraphobia, but there are a lot of compassionate, wonderful people here who have some great ES&H (experience, strength and hope) in dealing with an A.
Hugs and prayers,
Amy