Welcome to the SR family!
I agree with LexiCat that Alanon is a terrific resource for face to face support in your life. You will also find support and information here, 24/7.
One of the first things I learned at Alanon and here was the 3 C's:
I did not cause it
I could not control it
I would not cure it
That applied to my Alcoholic partner, and it still applies in my business and personal relationships that involve crazy behaviors.
Please make yourself at home by reading and posting as much as needed