This is what I mean...Why can he do that?
Mine is like that a lot. Its like spending time w kid is painful, because he SHOULD do it or something...
MEanwhile, I have felt at deaths door with a flu, or otherwise and was able to do what is necessary to keep the balloon up. If I felt that bad, and got the kid to school, made food, played with him, I wouldnt dream of leaving the house to help a friend until I felt better.
It is a confusing thing there.