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Old 03-30-2011, 06:49 AM
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wicked
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If the new husband were not on my lease, he would be out on his drunk @zz!
Binging every weekend in your home?
Yeah, he can take it to his house, or wherever he drank before he found his wife.
Your house, your rules.
And just because she is on the lease, does not give her license to make everyone else in the house uncomfortable with the drunk she drug home.

Okay, maybe a softer approach with your roommate is called for.
Ask her to make some time for you to discuss the changes that have been happening lately.
She may be at a loss and has no idea how to say no. If she is codependent, she might be scared he will get mad, blame her, make her miserable.
Has your husband said to the drunk "Hey, I got a problem with you getting faced in my house?"
Drunks can be irresponsible and dangerous.
I have called the cops on my daughter and her friends.
I have been in recovery for 14 years, I do not allow alcohol in my house, they brought it in, and had to take it out.
Never came back.

be careful.
They are not your problem or responsibility.

Beth
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