I stayed. And there are days when I wish I had just bailed. But there are days when I'm glad we stayed in the same home. While one of my boundaries was that I wouldn't be around him while he was drinking, many of my boundaries focused on his behavior regardless of sobriety. If he's acting like an a*#@, I don't just 'take it' anymore. I try to walk away and talk about it when I'm not riled up. I don't think we're anywhere near out of the woods yet (even at 7 months sober....), and while I try to be hopeful, I feel like many days, we're just spinning the wheels and going through the motions of daily life.