I'm on the cusp of starting the divorce process myself... I'm scared. A small part of me wants to hold back, maybe just a "separation"... maybe this time he'll change... all these little things I keep telling myself to remind myself that there's hope.
Thank you for what you posted. It reminds me that maybe, just maybe... nothing will change on his side of the street. A divorce/separation is for me. To protect me, and the kids.