I had this last night. But guess what? My AH turned on me tonight by saying this tough love act I'm giving is not working for him. He feels abandoned when he needed me the most... Guess what? He's not getting it. I am... Feels better on my side of the fence for once. I'm not a spiteful person, just crazy how he doesn't know or remember how much he's hurt me in 2 years... He doesn't realize I am giving him the opportunity to grow up and stand on his own 2 feet. While I am getting back up on mine to - to stop enabling. Prayers for you