...and I'm impressed that you figured out just how much of a problem this is:
Originally Posted by
julienamana 
I really do have a good full life but I always put the men in my life first. I know this is one of my biggest problems. I am going to check out a CODA meeting next week I think it might be more specific to my problem but will for sure still keep on with Alanon, I have a long history of alcholic boyfriends lol so I see the need.
It took me a lot longer to figure this out about myself in that you and I share(d) this dynamic. In my opinion it's the biggest part of my problem. Learning to change this in Alanon has changed my life and helped me to remember what happiness is (also around my teen daughter).
Well done Lady, and good luck!
Cyranoak
